Hi Max,
there are pieces that donīt do well on winders.
No idea why they refuse to wind on a winder and other units of the same model and even of the same production batch will do, but still it is a phenomenon that can be observed from time to time.
So iīd chalk it up to your watch having a soul and simply begging to be on your wrist
In any case, iīd not recommend to change the winder settings.
Overwinding will cause wear and subsequently damages, so thatīs something to avoid.
Cheers,
Peter