it doesn't permit her to admit of mistakes, like i am great , great people don;t make mistakes, therefore i don't make mistakes.
the trap in this is that if you are low self esteem which while giving good problem solving since mistakes are admitted can be very distructive since high self esteem takes from low self esteem
my defunct message board used to give me this problem time to time, high esteem nitwits who just want to railroad on the energy of the board and not contribute but drain it...
however since i make mistakes its hard to judge what to do, best or the only way is to approach gradually, slective deletion of posts might be effective if you are able like say deleleting anything she says to rev things or is missionising her view point or something. its really better to get this gradual feel for what is happening so either she can change or goes away of her own free will which means she doesn't belong here and won't come back. i think you have to allow she may belong here and can change, but you can't tell and have to test by doing things, like selective deletion.
more and more i am understanding the need to test ideas about things, like a surmise about a share(amd!), which is down 25% since i brought it, now i look at the options etc and the chart and seeing upper and lower limits, like since i tend to do then think, then start with a very small purcjhase and see how it goes
so you can do things succesively and get the all important practical re working of the theory which always needs a lot of working out.
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