know your rights first.

do they have free legal service near you, where you can get basic advice. they have it here. it is often called something like community legal aid. they can tell you what the school board can enforce and what they cant.

1. lilghostie has a disability - they may be discriminating by forcing a meeting.
2. you may be able to get a meeting on your terms eg netmeeting or something like that.
3. attack is best form of defence. you have attacked and they are going to attack harder. you need to know it going to get worse maybe lilghostie.