feel sorry for mineself.
in that, you are alone and wasting your efforts.
"Was you rudeness and unkindness worth it?"
dont see anything rude or unkind.
if you read the whole thread, you will see that the person to whom am responding does not know what are mine words, and what arent, because she is not reading the posts... which on that board are (unlike here) right above your own writing.. so easy to refer to... no need to memorize them.
"it's all here in it's glory.."
dont know what that means.
have no understanding of what is this "glory" you speak of.
"every word practically dripping with sarcasm."
that is a very strange comment.
how you see this sarcasm in something that is not intended as being sarcastic is completely beyond mine grasp. what was doing was speaking with the person with whom was having the conversation, and showing to her the places where she was telling mineself to read her comments because was saying that was misunderstanding them... when they were not even mine own comments.. that information was readily available for anyone that reads posts there... to see who wrote what... and the places where she was asking where she had said certain things.. pointing them out... and the incongruence with agreeing with someones comments and then saying they didnt agree... was wanting to understand wether they changed their mind about agreeing, or wether they said they agreed and really didnt... those were all questions to try to understand better what she was trying to say...
this is common in autistic persons... the questioning of things until we understand what is being talked about..
this questioning of what is being said until it is understood correctly, and then being labelled rude or sarcastic, or lacking in social skills, is the type of thing that happened a while back with another AS individual who frequents these boards, among others... and she wrote about it in her book... along with responses from the Nt person(s) involved in that conversation...and she included in her book mine reply in that situation (from there you can read the views that have on that situation)... seems that it happens quite often when NT's and autism spectrum persons discuss something... this questioning bakc and forth until there is a fairly good understanding of what a person is saying... and it seems to happen often also that the NT person states that what the autism spectrum person is doing is either rude (that was what happened in her situation, she was called rude), or sarcastic, or as having very poor social skills.... dont understand (like in that situation discussed in her book, it was not understood why certain comments or questinos were considered rude) why it is that it happens that way... that the Nt person in the exchange seems to feel that something the AS (autism spectrum individual) is saying is rude or sarcastic when it never was intended to be that way... and infact there is time taken to try to make sure the words are not coming across as rude or sarcastic, or mean, or lacking in proper social skills in any way...
"I feel sorry for you."
why?
that is quite a waste of feelings.
noting to feel sorry for, and even if there was, what would it benefit you to feel sorry for mineself?
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