Never heard that terminology used before

and a really stupid one it is. Ryan, who is hfa, is way better at a variety of emotions that Thomas who has 2...happy and totally pissed off. Ryan uses them appropriately and spontaneously. Lazy denotes that you refuse to use them as it is too much trouble. At least that is how I would interpret it. In your case, that isn't true at all. Will having an official diagnosis help you get some services?