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it is you who jump to conclusions

January 6 2003 at 12:04 AM
 


Response to parents who jump to conclusions

 
you really have no idea what you are talking about...

I wasnt going to respond to your rants but i decided to go ahead, not that i feel it will do any good, you really have a problem.

I dont blame anyone for my childs behavior nor his problems.I do blame the vaccine makers for my sons disability because HE DID have reactions to the DPT shot, that is a fact. I do know my child and what behaviors he has. I know how he reacts. I know what he will do when he doesnt want to "work" and what he will do when he is being hurt. SO dont tell me that i blame people for my sons behavior. I simply stated i know how he acts. And my son doesnt bite me. He rarely has any "bad" behavior at all at home. He is a very happy boy and smiles alot and tries hard to please those around him.

LIke i said he only bites when HE is being hurt. My child is NON VERBAL and he doesnt intentionally hurt ANYONE! There is ALWAYS a reason for his response...
Recently he had foam in his nose, and i had to hold him down and prod his nose to get it out, he did act like he was going to bite me and i said the words NO BITE (which i began teaching him at 3) and he stopped. When my son and i work on ABA activities and he wants to stop, he doesnt resort to biting.
But since i KNOW how to teach him i can change MY technique and make it fun again and he keeps working.Something that a person learns to do with training....
He ONLY resorts to biting when HE is being hurt...
So you really have NO idea what I teach my son...

I teach my child right from wrong, what you think i just would allow biting? Are you stupid? From your post i do believe you are less than intelligent.

Goofy assumptions? I know the poster is in my town. I know there is no 6yr old non verbal child with autism in my town. This is a very very small town.
I know the odds that its NOT the aide are about a billion to one. I also know things i havent posted here...

And i believe she was the one talking about suing people....me in particular. Cause she, as your state of mind thinks, its the parent responsible when the child is at school. Excuse me but if the people responsible for teaching the child at school are appropriately trained to teach a child with autism there are very few problems. Its when people are NOT trained that problems begin and persist.

I research and learn and teach myself how to teach my child. Am i bossy? YOur damn straight I am, cause I KNOW what MY CHILD needs and its based on knowledge....research into autism, research on how to teach a child with autism, and knowledge of my own child and what he is capable of.

Goofy assumptions? The only "6th sense" was the feeling i got from the post after the second post. Its kinda hard to explain and still pretty much gives me the eebie jeebies when it happens...But You dont even know me and the FACT that i have had many "6th sense" experiences in my life.Every thing since that first feeling is based on fact.

There is a big difference between assumption and deduction based on fact.I know the truth...

ANd from your post and the nasty things you said i can only assume that your words actually mirror your own feelings of yourself. The only thing i heard from you was a rant from an angry hateful ignorant person who has no clue to what my situation is...

And no im not fuming mad...i havent gotten mad.
Sad would more describe how i feel.
Sadness that i know my son has been hurt enough to bite somone.
Sadness that schools dont provide appropriate training so that children like my son have appropriate education.
Sadness that there are people like the poster who are deceitful.
And sadness because there are people like YOU.

 
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