Hey wantoks,
i am 22 female and i dont know why but i am falling in love with this young caucassian boy who is seventeen (17) year old. I have found out that he is also interested in me. One time, i told him, " i wish yu were 25 year older than me" he replied," i dont care age doesnt matter". This tells me that he likes me regarless of age or what not. But for meslef, i think it is a sin for falling in love with a younger boy , to me age does matter while to him, it doesnt. What can i do, for i really really Love him. Any advice on that please

Who told you it was sin to fall in love for a younger boy? Are you out of your head or is it the PNG culture thing taking a better part of your thoughts (making you wonder if its sin). Sin is only when either one of you are married already. If you're both single then go for it girl. This is life, and forget the age crap..!! I wish i was that 17 year old boy...my gosh!!

I believe the legal age is 16. What you waiting for? Make your move or you'll regret it later.

Marry him, after the first child or when he has enough of you, he would prefer to play with his own age group leaving you dry. Think about it.

Go for it girlie. Young males are hot because they watch koms every day...You wont regret it. I wish I am the 17 year old...

Stap with yu
DB

Jeepers! You seem like the 17 Year Old coz you falling for his lines... At that age (regardless of race) all young boys wanna do is f.u.c.k. if they can bang someone older than them, then even better - something to boast to his mates about (a trophy to work towards and place away in a cupboard once the battle is won)! You will probably be just another number in his book - something to do when there is nothing else to do - if you catch my drift!

You claim you're in love - think about it carefully... could it be lust?

Hope this helps in you making the SMART decision with regards to your situation.

Cheers.

Player..

A five year gap is NOT a big deal.

You're both too young to be thinking about a long-term relationship (ie marriage, babies, etc.).

Seize the moment and enjoy it.

Good luck!!!!!

i guess theres always a silent rule against dating younger guys especially if they are 5+ years younger, then again it depends on how you feel about it.

i was totally fine with dating younger guys but when my younger sister started dating, she asked me not to even think about going out with guys 3+ years younger and also when i found out my younger brother has been seeing this gal whos my age, i thought it wasnt rite.

overall, if you have genuine feelings for him there shouldnt be any problems and it dosent matter what everyone else thinks.

cheers

lewa ur digging urself a grave. his young taim em les long u he will move on....beside if ur in it for love ur making a mistake his young and caucasian please when het gets more matured he will relise he made a mistake. is say wait till his matured enough.

"Growing Old is Mandatory, Growing up is Not - I repeat, Growing up is Not.

Susa, define for me what you mean by LOVE? I ask bcoz, I am 42 and my fiance is 25 (just In case you are asking I am not female! the answer is No and I might just add never being married). FIND TRUE LOVE ACCORDING TO THE WORD OF GOD AND YOU WILL NOT GET IT WRONG. GOD BLESS YOU. NA TINIM EVERYTHING STARTS AND ENDS WITH GOD.

Here is trusting you make the right choice considering you have a long future before you.