I wish you the best when you meet.
I know, for me...the times I had met some from the net and in r/t, I was...fearful. And I had better have...been. There is nothing wrong with...fear.
I still am at times, as the power of D/s...submission is not something I take lightly.
To just be yourself sounds...easy. -grins- and it is...not that...easy. Those that tell you it is are only fooling themselves as we all hide behind our own lil walls until we get to know someone on a much better basis and that takes...time...IMHO.
I never used safe calls...THIS WAS a big...mistake. That was complete selfishness on my part, as I have people who care about me and depend on me in my life.
Expectations, the scenerios in my head of what it would be like, what would happen etc, etc...was just...that. Scenerios.
Have fun...but above all listen to your guts and be...careful. You will know withing a few hours...if its all...right.
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